The Gentleman...

Al right Ladies and Gentleman... A little disclaimer. The comments that are made in this particular piece are solely my own personal observation, but not everyone’s absolute paradigm... Just for the art of adult conversation... Brain food and a conversation piece. I often wonder how woman must feel now-a-days? When men see them as nothing more than breast and butts and such. It seems men never truly really understand what the species woman has to offer. There are a few intricacies that drive men crazy for example: when a man ask his woman what she wants to eat. She may reply; whatever you like? Then when you say what you want. She'll say, I didn't want that. These are just a few things that women are notorious, but we as men neglect them being that most of us act as what a dog may do. (Eat, Sleep, Work, Sex and Sniff Booties) We are not use to having to work for affection. Cats however don't just come because you make kissing sounds at them, same with woman. They'll come to you when they feel the need for affection. Call it unfair; but it not it ironic that we as grown men continue to gain women’s approval by literally chasing them instead of dating them? I recently found out that dating and courting are two different things. Courting is the preliminary engagement, while dating is the itinerary where you discuss the arrangements and then realized. Us men need to first court ourselves, so we can know how to properly date a woman. Men always blame the woman? Actually; Adam and Eve: Yes the woman Eve took the first leap into temptation by partaking of what is forbidden. But, as Man; Adam was suppose to be the stronger of the two, even though his counter parts vision was impaired and not take advantage of her weakness and "taking it there." Just as men do today. Women get drunk off "the weak game" then, off to bed... If she had been sober? The moaning that the man was hearing was actually the sound of her about to throw-up all over him! Men must be a Gentleman at ALL times. A Gentleman: is Masculinity under control. I personally have MASTERED my own sin filled human nature for the most part. Glory to GOD. However, not one person is perfect and is a daily battle. But, we should ALL strive for perfection! Perfection has a wide range, the one of which I speak of is with in us ALL "Our Souls." When it comes down to it. It's not what you look like or what people say... Its how your Soul feels at the end of everyday, when we all look in that mirror. Take an honest look and say, "I really am being the best person I can be!" This was just a little sample into the way my mind turns. Until next time...

Zi the Gentleman