*A Woman is like a 1,000 piece puzzle, when your almost finished putting it together, you realized 400 pieces are not to be found?* - Zi
She's up set at me over nothing that I know? She won't express her self to me, so a guess I will never know? When I kiss her, her kisses don't kiss back? Lying in bed; she just rolls over so all I can see is her back. Does she still love me; it does not seem like it? I hate it, its not me, I can never like it! Whatever attitude she has with me, I did not see it coming? The reason for the resentment, who knows but it leaves my mind dumbing, I'll just wait day by day and see how this story goes..... Its now in GODS hands, master; how will the story go? She's a Woman...
Given all the above, you still must respect her ways and engulf her heart in an abundance of LOVE!
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Do not let people steal your JOY...
Most of us tend to let the most minor things cause our entire day to go south. Example: Some one cuts you off in traffic; some one curses you out Etc. As long as they do not touch your body or even invade your space. I say, just smile and proceed because obviously they are not worth your time and energy. Maybe they need to see people that do not re-act to their negative behaviors? It's kind of like being an unspoken Teacher. Let the student see that positive control you possess. Maybe something positive will click in their soul.
Prime example: about 3 years ago at a Target shopping Center parking lot. This older Caucasian male was walking and these two African American males were driving; speeding in the lot and came pretty close to hitting him. The old man called them "You Fucking Niggers" and other negative things. I happened to be behind him. He turned back and saw me and said, "I'm sorry young man, they just nearly hit me." I simply said, "when people do stupid things all you can do is smile to keep from choking someone out." He did not expect that response from me at all. He just turned beet red, laughed and said, "your right" smiled and walked into the store. Why 2 weeks later did I see him helping those people that stand in front of the doors asking for donations? He was helping them obtain more donation money. As people were walking by, he was smiling, waving, clapping. Then a month later, I saw him feeding some stray cats at a Food 4 Less. I can tell you, seeing that transformation really touched my heart, I vowed to do my best and be kinder to ALL people.
"Do not let people steal your JOY... Be the one who is proactive and positive. I promise you will feel better and it will work!" - Zi
Prime example: about 3 years ago at a Target shopping Center parking lot. This older Caucasian male was walking and these two African American males were driving; speeding in the lot and came pretty close to hitting him. The old man called them "You Fucking Niggers" and other negative things. I happened to be behind him. He turned back and saw me and said, "I'm sorry young man, they just nearly hit me." I simply said, "when people do stupid things all you can do is smile to keep from choking someone out." He did not expect that response from me at all. He just turned beet red, laughed and said, "your right" smiled and walked into the store. Why 2 weeks later did I see him helping those people that stand in front of the doors asking for donations? He was helping them obtain more donation money. As people were walking by, he was smiling, waving, clapping. Then a month later, I saw him feeding some stray cats at a Food 4 Less. I can tell you, seeing that transformation really touched my heart, I vowed to do my best and be kinder to ALL people.
"Do not let people steal your JOY... Be the one who is proactive and positive. I promise you will feel better and it will work!" - Zi
Monday, February 23, 2009
GODS basic RULES
"It's easier to do the wrong thing with in milli seconds, but to do the right thing for most can take a life time!?" - Zi
The Bible: King James Version
Commandments break down: People through out the centuries have polluted the bare essence of how GOD would like us to live. GOD is very complex, but also very simple if you just "do right." GOD is jealous, but unconsciously forgiving too. He HATES for people to put things of the world above him. He LOVES it when you walk in righteousness as best you can. No one is made perfect, so no one can be and walk in perfection.
1 Example of how GOD loves us so much: FREE WILL: A man can kill another man. Now, if that man doing the killing confesses his self before GOD in his heart. That man can be forgiven. We as people would see that man as not deserving to live and should be killed. Or an eye for an eye. Mankind can ONLY read the actions and behaviors of man. GOD judges the heart of man when all is said and done.
1 Example of how GOD hates: A man can love his family more than GOD. GOD does not want anyone to put anything before him, not even our selves. For HE is the creator. Example: You are a business owner; you created your business from scratch all by yourself. You hire a man to market your products, but you find him selling his own product on the time you pay him on and don’t want to change his way. You as the creator would not stand for that, and would most likely get rid of that individual? You would not want him to put anything before you or your business. Just as GOD hates when man put things before him "the creator."
The Bible: King James Version
Commandments break down: People through out the centuries have polluted the bare essence of how GOD would like us to live. GOD is very complex, but also very simple if you just "do right." GOD is jealous, but unconsciously forgiving too. He HATES for people to put things of the world above him. He LOVES it when you walk in righteousness as best you can. No one is made perfect, so no one can be and walk in perfection.
1 Example of how GOD loves us so much: FREE WILL: A man can kill another man. Now, if that man doing the killing confesses his self before GOD in his heart. That man can be forgiven. We as people would see that man as not deserving to live and should be killed. Or an eye for an eye. Mankind can ONLY read the actions and behaviors of man. GOD judges the heart of man when all is said and done.
1 Example of how GOD hates: A man can love his family more than GOD. GOD does not want anyone to put anything before him, not even our selves. For HE is the creator. Example: You are a business owner; you created your business from scratch all by yourself. You hire a man to market your products, but you find him selling his own product on the time you pay him on and don’t want to change his way. You as the creator would not stand for that, and would most likely get rid of that individual? You would not want him to put anything before you or your business. Just as GOD hates when man put things before him "the creator."
Quit playing and Stimulate the Economy for REAL!
Those little baby stimulus checks aren't anything... Better than nothing though right? Let's be real, they don't stimulate dog do! Why not, issue out debt cards with a credit line of $100,000 on it? Heck, every 10 years issue a huge lump sum of checks or credit, its like Economic Preventive Maintenance! "Talk about stimulating the Economy!" They could make that happen and more if they want? We are suppose to be the nation of opportunity, really our so-called leaders hearts have proved to be pew ny. Everyone wants to come here and they do, at all cost! I feel not one legal person should be hurting financially on US soil. Oh, wait... I forgot "it will never happen, this country is to GREEDY to do that."
Chocolate Lovers
Not to discredit all the other flavors out there. All of which probably taste just fine to someone or another? But, this one gos out to all the Chocolate Lovers?
A Chocolate Lover is a person of another ethnicity who use to date other nationalities, but got a hold of "Chocolate" now no other flavor can satisfy that sweet tooth. Chocolates are African Americans, Blacks or whatever WE call ourselves? This particular "Shut Out" goes to my beautiful woman Josie. She is Mexican and Japanese and LOVES her some ME... And I HER! Gotta Have Some Sexy Chocolate as she refers to me. (She loves to eat Chocolate, has a "Chocolate Makes Me Smile" T-Shirt and Favorite color is Chocolate.) The woman is Chocolated out in a real way!
All fun aside; the post is to profess my LOVE for her in front of many! Josie, I LOVE YOU with my heart in your beautiful hands. May GOD continue to keep us in his favor, for us to share a life time together/forever... LOVE.
A Chocolate Lover is a person of another ethnicity who use to date other nationalities, but got a hold of "Chocolate" now no other flavor can satisfy that sweet tooth. Chocolates are African Americans, Blacks or whatever WE call ourselves? This particular "Shut Out" goes to my beautiful woman Josie. She is Mexican and Japanese and LOVES her some ME... And I HER! Gotta Have Some Sexy Chocolate as she refers to me. (She loves to eat Chocolate, has a "Chocolate Makes Me Smile" T-Shirt and Favorite color is Chocolate.) The woman is Chocolated out in a real way!
All fun aside; the post is to profess my LOVE for her in front of many! Josie, I LOVE YOU with my heart in your beautiful hands. May GOD continue to keep us in his favor, for us to share a life time together/forever... LOVE.
A Woman’s Femininity
We all know the old saying, "You can't live with them and you can't live without them."
I speak of Women of course... That statement rings loud and clear so true for most people. No matter the nationality, they are just the same; like wise Men. I actually was a 100% firm believer in that too, but I matured. Beyond all the maintenance factors with in a woman especially "the cycle." A Woman’s Femininity gives a type of silky softness to the entire steel refined world. She is light for the dark, warmth when it is cold, food for the hungry... My GOD; in my case she was Mother and Father. Women ware a variety of stylish hats and do it with class, smile on a daily basis. Women bring elements that NO man; Heterosexual, Metro sexual or Gay can naturally supply. All my LOVE and RESPECT goes out to the women who are doing it right, all the while being classy and respecting themselves and their bodies. Most of all: staying Feminine.
I speak of Women of course... That statement rings loud and clear so true for most people. No matter the nationality, they are just the same; like wise Men. I actually was a 100% firm believer in that too, but I matured. Beyond all the maintenance factors with in a woman especially "the cycle." A Woman’s Femininity gives a type of silky softness to the entire steel refined world. She is light for the dark, warmth when it is cold, food for the hungry... My GOD; in my case she was Mother and Father. Women ware a variety of stylish hats and do it with class, smile on a daily basis. Women bring elements that NO man; Heterosexual, Metro sexual or Gay can naturally supply. All my LOVE and RESPECT goes out to the women who are doing it right, all the while being classy and respecting themselves and their bodies. Most of all: staying Feminine.
Friday, February 20, 2009
Animals have Sex and People should Make Love
"Everyone has the ability to have Sex, but few actually know how to Make Love" Maybe that's why there is so much Sex going on? - Zi
I'm not judging the human nature of man; because WE are tainted from birth. Rather I'm disappointed in how WEAK our flesh and minds are and getting worse. The mind is suppose to be our greatest asset, is that not truth? If that succumbs to temptation, what becomes of our souls? People hand out their intimate time like what they feel is sweet candy, really its spoiled milk. I used to fall onto that same "Sex" trap. Sleeping with gina one day, then next day tammy all of which in heavy rotation and more partners involved. If you deeply ponder the thought, it’s a very lethal; perverted cycle that for most people is hard to stop. Not only is it unhealthy, but our minds begin to accept these doings as "normal" behaviors? The stop and yield signs are all out there in the form of STDs. Even with so called protection its not safe. People should have more respect for themselves and their potential partner. Having respect is not Sex without love, that's for sure. That type of love should be stamped and sealed before any partaking of intercourse begins. The first step of making love is conversation. If one can not converse first, as they did as a child. (Meaning, speech came before your Sex) How can they converse on a satisfactory level in the intimate realm? (Pillow Talk) Many peoples vocabulary is so sparse and recessively be nine; they don't know how to talk, if you really listen. All I'm saying is; if your version of Sex at least has a love heart felt? Then that act of that "Sex" is far sweeter than almost anything in the world. Moreover, simply "Make Love than have Sex."
I personally must give honor and glory to GOD for bringing my woman; life partner directly to ME. Also giving me a Ph.D of Making Love even when I never touched her, but when I did? All was already in place for the "LOVE TAKE OVER."
Zi Zi the Gentleman
I'm not judging the human nature of man; because WE are tainted from birth. Rather I'm disappointed in how WEAK our flesh and minds are and getting worse. The mind is suppose to be our greatest asset, is that not truth? If that succumbs to temptation, what becomes of our souls? People hand out their intimate time like what they feel is sweet candy, really its spoiled milk. I used to fall onto that same "Sex" trap. Sleeping with gina one day, then next day tammy all of which in heavy rotation and more partners involved. If you deeply ponder the thought, it’s a very lethal; perverted cycle that for most people is hard to stop. Not only is it unhealthy, but our minds begin to accept these doings as "normal" behaviors? The stop and yield signs are all out there in the form of STDs. Even with so called protection its not safe. People should have more respect for themselves and their potential partner. Having respect is not Sex without love, that's for sure. That type of love should be stamped and sealed before any partaking of intercourse begins. The first step of making love is conversation. If one can not converse first, as they did as a child. (Meaning, speech came before your Sex) How can they converse on a satisfactory level in the intimate realm? (Pillow Talk) Many peoples vocabulary is so sparse and recessively be nine; they don't know how to talk, if you really listen. All I'm saying is; if your version of Sex at least has a love heart felt? Then that act of that "Sex" is far sweeter than almost anything in the world. Moreover, simply "Make Love than have Sex."
I personally must give honor and glory to GOD for bringing my woman; life partner directly to ME. Also giving me a Ph.D of Making Love even when I never touched her, but when I did? All was already in place for the "LOVE TAKE OVER."
Zi Zi the Gentleman
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
The Gentleman...
Al right Ladies and Gentleman... A little disclaimer. The comments that are made in this particular piece are solely my own personal observation, but not everyone’s absolute paradigm... Just for the art of adult conversation... Brain food and a conversation piece. I often wonder how woman must feel now-a-days? When men see them as nothing more than breast and butts and such. It seems men never truly really understand what the species woman has to offer. There are a few intricacies that drive men crazy for example: when a man ask his woman what she wants to eat. She may reply; whatever you like? Then when you say what you want. She'll say, I didn't want that. These are just a few things that women are notorious, but we as men neglect them being that most of us act as what a dog may do. (Eat, Sleep, Work, Sex and Sniff Booties) We are not use to having to work for affection. Cats however don't just come because you make kissing sounds at them, same with woman. They'll come to you when they feel the need for affection. Call it unfair; but it not it ironic that we as grown men continue to gain women’s approval by literally chasing them instead of dating them? I recently found out that dating and courting are two different things. Courting is the preliminary engagement, while dating is the itinerary where you discuss the arrangements and then realized. Us men need to first court ourselves, so we can know how to properly date a woman. Men always blame the woman? Actually; Adam and Eve: Yes the woman Eve took the first leap into temptation by partaking of what is forbidden. But, as Man; Adam was suppose to be the stronger of the two, even though his counter parts vision was impaired and not take advantage of her weakness and "taking it there." Just as men do today. Women get drunk off "the weak game" then, off to bed... If she had been sober? The moaning that the man was hearing was actually the sound of her about to throw-up all over him! Men must be a Gentleman at ALL times. A Gentleman: is Masculinity under control. I personally have MASTERED my own sin filled human nature for the most part. Glory to GOD. However, not one person is perfect and is a daily battle. But, we should ALL strive for perfection! Perfection has a wide range, the one of which I speak of is with in us ALL "Our Souls." When it comes down to it. It's not what you look like or what people say... Its how your Soul feels at the end of everyday, when we all look in that mirror. Take an honest look and say, "I really am being the best person I can be!" This was just a little sample into the way my mind turns. Until next time...
Zi the Gentleman
Zi the Gentleman
All the beautiful Nationalities in the World...
It baffles my mind at times when I see and hear the many diverse nationalities of the world try to "one up" one another? We bash and rape one another’s faults, short coming along with the blessing they bring to the table. Each nationality brings something unique to life’s table. African Americans may bring innovativeness through the style and culture a lot a people seems to try and mimic. Caucasians may bring a business savvy and a gun-ho-ness. Mexicans may bring a by any means necessary through a tireless work ethic. Asians may bring technical and precision side... And so on. There are too many individual nationalities to name, I'm sure you can follow my path? People need to get through their very hard/thick heads that; one hand washes the other. Weather we like to believe it or not we are ALL put on this earth as a test of LOVE; LOYALTY to ourselves. The unfortunate reality about it; for the most part we are failing horribly. "Get it together people; we need each other like never before!"
Zi the Gentleman
Zi the Gentleman
Presence of GOD…
I'm so thankful to GOD to have experienced all the simple things that the world has to offer and… “Got Out Alive!” But my mission is clear; more each day and more than fame, fortune or love from a human… turn to GOD first. The only secure thing WE have right now is GOD’S ever lasting LOVE. Everything around us is going down quickly; but the Word of GOD and the POWER of PRAYER. I’m not preaching bible, bible, bible; in there man has polluted, twisted and defamed many passages in it. Also, I'm not telling anyone what they need to do but I'm just sharing what GOD has been feeding me. That doesn't mean stay at church all too it means drawer nearer to the presence of GOD and STAY THERE.
Zi the Gentleman
Zi the Gentleman
ASK Zi
Ask Zi the Gentleman / better known as the "FREE Spiritual Relationship Advisor"
Gentleman: Masculinity under control. (I Can Help You Limit Your Sinful Human Nature) Talk Positive*Do Positive*Live Positive Home Base / Inland Empire Over 10 years of Spiritual Experience Current Status: The Master of a 2 year relationship to a wonderful woman.
Hello, my name is Zi. I LOVE GODs people so MUCH! So, I answer FREE Spiritual Relationship questions World Wide from people in need of a certain type of knowledge; in delicate types and intricate situations. I've been a FREE relationship Advisor for over 10 years. I specialize solely in OVER 18 years of age Adult Relationships; Single, Couples, Marriages. Odd behaviors with in the frame work of the relationship IE: Strong holds: Sexually dependent on porn, Infidelities... Etc. "Why do people do what they do?" We the People are such odd natured Creatures? Such in fact, animals turn and twist their own heads to try and understand US.
Send ME an email with your Questions or Concerns about Yourself or Your Mate. I will reply ASAP. Contact / Zi Email: elhjrz@gmail.com Google im Me: elhjrz
12 Month-2009 / Advisory Statements...
January Whatever the circumstance? "Always remain a Gentleman!" - Zi
February "Men will NEVER fully understand Women, Women will NEVER fully understand Man" As soon as you realized that, your life will be much easier - Zi
March "For a successful relationship with longevity; both parties must respect each others feelings and life goals every second they are together" - Zi
April "What's done in the Dark... Will come out in the Light" - Zi
May "Stay ready and You never have to get ready!' - Zi
June "If you don't love yourself? How can you love others? - Zi
July "Just because I believe in GOD and you don't, doesn't make ME better than YOU." - Zi
August "Not everybody believes in GODs goodness and that's fine. However, everybody knows what's Good and what's Bad. So, do good." - Zi
September "Have you ever noticed? People who park; the ones that pull forward are mostly the RUSHERS. The ones that back into a space are mostly PATIENT." - Zi
October People ALWAYS fail you! GOD NEVER does... - Zi
November "I didn't back slide, I stepped back 2 watch U fall on your back, then YOU slid." - Zi
December "Foolish things confound the wise." - Zi
Sample of 2010 / Advisory Statements...
January Adam and Eve: Yes the woman Eve took the first leap into temptation by partaking of what is forbidden. But, as Man; Adam was suppose to be the stronger of the two, even though his counter parts vision was impaired and not take advantage of her weakness. Just as men do today. Women get drunk off "the weak game" off to bed... If she had been sober? The moaning that the man was hearing was actually the sound of her about to throw-up.
Gentleman: Masculinity under control. (I Can Help You Limit Your Sinful Human Nature) Talk Positive*Do Positive*Live Positive Home Base / Inland Empire Over 10 years of Spiritual Experience Current Status: The Master of a 2 year relationship to a wonderful woman.
Hello, my name is Zi. I LOVE GODs people so MUCH! So, I answer FREE Spiritual Relationship questions World Wide from people in need of a certain type of knowledge; in delicate types and intricate situations. I've been a FREE relationship Advisor for over 10 years. I specialize solely in OVER 18 years of age Adult Relationships; Single, Couples, Marriages. Odd behaviors with in the frame work of the relationship IE: Strong holds: Sexually dependent on porn, Infidelities... Etc. "Why do people do what they do?" We the People are such odd natured Creatures? Such in fact, animals turn and twist their own heads to try and understand US.
Send ME an email with your Questions or Concerns about Yourself or Your Mate. I will reply ASAP. Contact / Zi Email: elhjrz@gmail.com Google im Me: elhjrz
12 Month-2009 / Advisory Statements...
January Whatever the circumstance? "Always remain a Gentleman!" - Zi
February "Men will NEVER fully understand Women, Women will NEVER fully understand Man" As soon as you realized that, your life will be much easier - Zi
March "For a successful relationship with longevity; both parties must respect each others feelings and life goals every second they are together" - Zi
April "What's done in the Dark... Will come out in the Light" - Zi
May "Stay ready and You never have to get ready!' - Zi
June "If you don't love yourself? How can you love others? - Zi
July "Just because I believe in GOD and you don't, doesn't make ME better than YOU." - Zi
August "Not everybody believes in GODs goodness and that's fine. However, everybody knows what's Good and what's Bad. So, do good." - Zi
September "Have you ever noticed? People who park; the ones that pull forward are mostly the RUSHERS. The ones that back into a space are mostly PATIENT." - Zi
October People ALWAYS fail you! GOD NEVER does... - Zi
November "I didn't back slide, I stepped back 2 watch U fall on your back, then YOU slid." - Zi
December "Foolish things confound the wise." - Zi
Sample of 2010 / Advisory Statements...
January Adam and Eve: Yes the woman Eve took the first leap into temptation by partaking of what is forbidden. But, as Man; Adam was suppose to be the stronger of the two, even though his counter parts vision was impaired and not take advantage of her weakness. Just as men do today. Women get drunk off "the weak game" off to bed... If she had been sober? The moaning that the man was hearing was actually the sound of her about to throw-up.
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