Real Love

To ALL of the couples out their. If you tell a person you love them? You better mean it from your heart & not in vein. To many people use that word casually. Men if you are/were in a relationship and ever was unkind in any way? Turn it around now so you won't lose her love & respect. Women if you are/were in a relationship and ever un unkind in any way? Likewise turn it around so you don't lose his love & respect. Real Love is about, learning, growing, finding ways to build upon your love starting just the two. Sometime you may need to tear it all down & start all over. Meaning if you really love eachother but keep having issue after issues? Take time apart to re-think you as a person then introduce or submerge your mate back into your life and rotation. Some choose to conduct this by implementing their God and faith into rule. Some who don't practice Godliness do it the way they were taught or shown growing up. Whatever method you do use? Know that LOVE is having positive thoughts about one another in and out of season. It all starts in our minds, it's how we want to think. Live positive and no evil force of nature can destory your present or future foundations! Love & Life to ALL!

Zi

Do not let people steal your JOY...

Most of us tend to let the most minor things cause our entire day to go south. Example: Some one cuts you off in traffic; some one curses you out Etc. As long as they do not touch your body or even invade your space. I say, just smile and proceed because obviously they are not worth your time and energy. Maybe they need to see people that do not re-act to their negative behaviors? It's kind of like being an unspoken Teacher. Let the student see that positive control you possess. Maybe something positive will click in their soul.

Prime example: about 3 years ago at a Target shopping Center parking lot. This older Caucasian male was walking and these two African American males were driving; speeding in the lot and came pretty close to hitting him. The old man called them "You Fucking Niggers" and other negative things. I happened to be behind him. He turned back and saw me and said, "I'm sorry young man, they just nearly hit me." I simply said, "when people do stupid things all you can do is smile to keep from choking someone out." He did not expect that response from me at all. He just turned beet red, laughed and said, "your right" smiled and walked into the store. Why 2 weeks later did I see him helping those people that stand in front of the doors asking for donations? He was helping them obtain more donation money. As people were walking by, he was smiling, waving, clapping. Then a month later, I saw him feeding some stray cats at a Food 4 Less. I can tell you, seeing that transformation really touched my heart, I vowed to do my best and be kinder to ALL people.

"Do not let people steal your JOY... Be the one who is proactive and positive. I promise you will feel better and it will work!" - Zi