I can't front and be fake. I loved this woman ”J.Noriko.G” in Fontana, Ca years ago ... Well, honestly I still do have love for her. If ever she needed anything? I would be there even though she has a man. You see I just jacked up and it was not even cheating. I just was going through baby mama issues with in my own life and could not balance it mentally. Unfortunately I did not realize the mental break down I had til its to late. If the world were different? Would I want her to take me back? Of course ... It's not reality though. Well, I wish the best for her, her beautiful 3 children, her man and family as a whole.
PS. Every now and then I dream about holding and kissing her :)
Monday, February 27, 2012
Friday, May 14, 2010
Real Love
To ALL of the couples out their. If you tell a person you love them? You better mean it from your heart & not in vein. To many people use that word casually. Men if you are/were in a relationship and ever was unkind in any way? Turn it around now so you won't lose her love & respect. Women if you are/were in a relationship and ever un unkind in any way? Likewise turn it around so you don't lose his love & respect. Real Love is about, learning, growing, finding ways to build upon your love starting just the two. Sometime you may need to tear it all down & start all over. Meaning if you really love eachother but keep having issue after issues? Take time apart to re-think you as a person then introduce or submerge your mate back into your life and rotation. Some choose to conduct this by implementing their God and faith into rule. Some who don't practice Godliness do it the way they were taught or shown growing up. Whatever method you do use? Know that LOVE is having positive thoughts about one another in and out of season. It all starts in our minds, it's how we want to think. Live positive and no evil force of nature can destory your present or future foundations! Love & Life to ALL!
Zi
Zi
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Evil Women!
Evil Women!
This may be the most important article you’ve ever read in your life. All stem from personal experience... Soak it ALL in!
Seriously!
This one article will be able to save you TONS and TONS of Times, Heartache, AND Money IF you heed the advice you’ll find within me words.
Why?
Because the advice I’m about to give you is designed to protect you from THE most dangerous and harmful thing on the face of the planet...
"EVIL WOMEN!"
Just like all things, there are good, and there are evil. The good can be a tremendously positive force in your life, filling it with joy and happiness. The evil, however, can cause tremendous pain, suffering, and even DEATH.
It’s no different with women.
There are good women in this world, and there are women that can only be described as EVIL. The purpose of this article is to help you spot the bad ones so you can save yourself from untold suffering and focus all your attention on finding a good woman that you can have amazing experiences with or the good one may find you?
The first thing I want to say about EVIL women is that it is important to spot them early! And once spotted, it is important not to have any type of contact with them if you want to enjoy complete happiness in your love life.
Of course, sometimes it can be very tempting to have a one-night stand or hot-and-heavy fling with a woman who is bad for you. And sometimes, everything can turn out okay. But that doesn’t mean you’re not still playing Russian roulette with your soul & love life!
The best defense against EVIL women is knowing the type of GOOD woman you want.
EXACTLY the type of GOOD woman you want.
When you know what you want, your search for the woman that’s right for you becomes much narrower and focused, so instantly you filter out a great many of the women you’ll be wasting your time with.
For instance, let’s say you’re looking for a serious girlfriend...
What are the things you’d want in a woman who’s going to be a good girlfriend? Let’s say you’d like a woman who really enjoys outdoor activities (because that’s what you enjoy). So you’re girlfriend has to be an avid outdoorsman. BOOM! You’ve just narrowed your search and eliminated a good 90% of the EVIL women that are out there.
But there’s still that 10% you have to look out for.
The next thing you should be aware of is if she is in a profession that lends itself to "unbalanced" personalities.
For instance, if the girl is, or has ever been, a stripper, a prostitute, or a porn actress, her chances of causing you incredible amounts of trouble are EXTREMELY great. And we’re not just talking about the mental trouble either, they could very well give you a disease from which you may never recover!
Another thing to look out for is self-destructive habits. If you notice the woman you’re with is a partier, heavy drug user or alcoholic... RUN. Do not get seriously involved with women who drink too much, do too many drugs, or both. These are women who will care more about the substances they abuse than YOU, even more than themselves. Again, they are also women who care nothing about themselves, and getting emotionally attached to someone who cares nothing for their well-being is a painful endeavor.
Some people criticize me for saying this, but I do believe it... BEWARE SINGLE MOTHERS! If you’re getting involved with a woman who already has a kid or kids, you’re opening yourself up for a great deal of trouble down the line. In most cases...
Why?
Because if she got pregnant once by some other guy, chances are she’ll get pregnant by YOU! Even if you use birth control! And if she DOES get pregnant, chances are she’ll go ahead and have the baby. This means that whether you break up with her or not, you’ll be stuck paying child support for the next 18 years! Now, if the idea of shelling out your hard-earned cash for a kid you never wanted to a woman you don’t like for the next 18 years of your life doesn’t appeal to you — STAY AWAY FROM SINGLE MOMS! Also if she has tied her tubes? If her ex is no longer around? She is still dangerous! Never build your nest in a stiuation where a neat already is.
In addition to that warning above, single moms will always choose their kids over you, which means you will always get the short end of the stick when it comes to her time and attention. So if you want lots of sex and adventures in your relationship, you can throw that away when dealing with a single mom! And not only that, but depending on what state you live in, if her kid gets attached to you, you might be legally liable for child support EVEN IF IT ISN’T YOUR KID! Check your local laws to be certain.
Watch out for women who are too clingy and get jealous easily! These are women who are incredibly insecure, and most likely they will cheat on you! In fact, the more jealous they are, the more likely it is they are sleeping around. This is because people tend to project their own behaviors on others, and if they think you’re cheating on them, chances are it’s because they, themselves, are cheating (or thinking about it!).
Watch how the woman treats her own family. Typically, women who have good relationships with their mother AND father are well balanced women who will treat you well. If they hate EITHER of their parents, chances are they’re going to end up treating you the same way.
As a side note to this, loot at how her parents treat each other if you get the chance. If their relationship is a good one, chances are the relationship you have with her will be good too! The same is true if the parents have a BAD relationship.
Also, look to see if the woman you like also likes children. It doesn’t matter if you want to have kids or not. If a woman does not like kids, that’s a statement about her own capacity to love and nurture! If she hates kids, then it’s a very good possibility she is incapable of deep commitment and personal connection, and will end up using and abusing the man she is with!
And finally, if you find out that you’re with an EVIL woman, do not hesitate to DUMP her immediately!
And when I say dump, I mean DUMP. Delete her number from your phone, do not see her or talk to her again. Cut her out of your life completely! And if she comes crawling back to you promising to change, DO NOT TAKE HER BACK. She won’t change, and she’ll make your life even WORSE than it was when you were with her before. Be strong and leave her behind completely, and work towards finding a good, positive woman to have in your life.
You can’t protect yourself 100% from EVIL women, but if you follow the guidelines I’ve given you above, then you have an extremely good chance of filtering them all out.
So how do you find yourself a good woman?
Well, odd enough as it sounds, the quality of the woman you can get directly depends on how high you value yourself!
"This means building a strong self-image that you can present to the world."
Wishing you Love & Success,
Zi
This may be the most important article you’ve ever read in your life. All stem from personal experience... Soak it ALL in!
Seriously!
This one article will be able to save you TONS and TONS of Times, Heartache, AND Money IF you heed the advice you’ll find within me words.
Why?
Because the advice I’m about to give you is designed to protect you from THE most dangerous and harmful thing on the face of the planet...
"EVIL WOMEN!"
Just like all things, there are good, and there are evil. The good can be a tremendously positive force in your life, filling it with joy and happiness. The evil, however, can cause tremendous pain, suffering, and even DEATH.
It’s no different with women.
There are good women in this world, and there are women that can only be described as EVIL. The purpose of this article is to help you spot the bad ones so you can save yourself from untold suffering and focus all your attention on finding a good woman that you can have amazing experiences with or the good one may find you?
The first thing I want to say about EVIL women is that it is important to spot them early! And once spotted, it is important not to have any type of contact with them if you want to enjoy complete happiness in your love life.
Of course, sometimes it can be very tempting to have a one-night stand or hot-and-heavy fling with a woman who is bad for you. And sometimes, everything can turn out okay. But that doesn’t mean you’re not still playing Russian roulette with your soul & love life!
The best defense against EVIL women is knowing the type of GOOD woman you want.
EXACTLY the type of GOOD woman you want.
When you know what you want, your search for the woman that’s right for you becomes much narrower and focused, so instantly you filter out a great many of the women you’ll be wasting your time with.
For instance, let’s say you’re looking for a serious girlfriend...
What are the things you’d want in a woman who’s going to be a good girlfriend? Let’s say you’d like a woman who really enjoys outdoor activities (because that’s what you enjoy). So you’re girlfriend has to be an avid outdoorsman. BOOM! You’ve just narrowed your search and eliminated a good 90% of the EVIL women that are out there.
But there’s still that 10% you have to look out for.
The next thing you should be aware of is if she is in a profession that lends itself to "unbalanced" personalities.
For instance, if the girl is, or has ever been, a stripper, a prostitute, or a porn actress, her chances of causing you incredible amounts of trouble are EXTREMELY great. And we’re not just talking about the mental trouble either, they could very well give you a disease from which you may never recover!
Another thing to look out for is self-destructive habits. If you notice the woman you’re with is a partier, heavy drug user or alcoholic... RUN. Do not get seriously involved with women who drink too much, do too many drugs, or both. These are women who will care more about the substances they abuse than YOU, even more than themselves. Again, they are also women who care nothing about themselves, and getting emotionally attached to someone who cares nothing for their well-being is a painful endeavor.
Some people criticize me for saying this, but I do believe it... BEWARE SINGLE MOTHERS! If you’re getting involved with a woman who already has a kid or kids, you’re opening yourself up for a great deal of trouble down the line. In most cases...
Why?
Because if she got pregnant once by some other guy, chances are she’ll get pregnant by YOU! Even if you use birth control! And if she DOES get pregnant, chances are she’ll go ahead and have the baby. This means that whether you break up with her or not, you’ll be stuck paying child support for the next 18 years! Now, if the idea of shelling out your hard-earned cash for a kid you never wanted to a woman you don’t like for the next 18 years of your life doesn’t appeal to you — STAY AWAY FROM SINGLE MOMS! Also if she has tied her tubes? If her ex is no longer around? She is still dangerous! Never build your nest in a stiuation where a neat already is.
In addition to that warning above, single moms will always choose their kids over you, which means you will always get the short end of the stick when it comes to her time and attention. So if you want lots of sex and adventures in your relationship, you can throw that away when dealing with a single mom! And not only that, but depending on what state you live in, if her kid gets attached to you, you might be legally liable for child support EVEN IF IT ISN’T YOUR KID! Check your local laws to be certain.
Watch out for women who are too clingy and get jealous easily! These are women who are incredibly insecure, and most likely they will cheat on you! In fact, the more jealous they are, the more likely it is they are sleeping around. This is because people tend to project their own behaviors on others, and if they think you’re cheating on them, chances are it’s because they, themselves, are cheating (or thinking about it!).
Watch how the woman treats her own family. Typically, women who have good relationships with their mother AND father are well balanced women who will treat you well. If they hate EITHER of their parents, chances are they’re going to end up treating you the same way.
As a side note to this, loot at how her parents treat each other if you get the chance. If their relationship is a good one, chances are the relationship you have with her will be good too! The same is true if the parents have a BAD relationship.
Also, look to see if the woman you like also likes children. It doesn’t matter if you want to have kids or not. If a woman does not like kids, that’s a statement about her own capacity to love and nurture! If she hates kids, then it’s a very good possibility she is incapable of deep commitment and personal connection, and will end up using and abusing the man she is with!
And finally, if you find out that you’re with an EVIL woman, do not hesitate to DUMP her immediately!
And when I say dump, I mean DUMP. Delete her number from your phone, do not see her or talk to her again. Cut her out of your life completely! And if she comes crawling back to you promising to change, DO NOT TAKE HER BACK. She won’t change, and she’ll make your life even WORSE than it was when you were with her before. Be strong and leave her behind completely, and work towards finding a good, positive woman to have in your life.
You can’t protect yourself 100% from EVIL women, but if you follow the guidelines I’ve given you above, then you have an extremely good chance of filtering them all out.
So how do you find yourself a good woman?
Well, odd enough as it sounds, the quality of the woman you can get directly depends on how high you value yourself!
"This means building a strong self-image that you can present to the world."
Wishing you Love & Success,
Zi
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Monday, April 13, 2009
Cain's Curse Really Not One...
Actually, being that Cain’s lineage was African is really not a curse as it is written. If Cain’s was the bloodline of the African (dark skinned) people and he was first born… What were Adam & Eve? Were they black people too, No. I will tell you what they were; Adam being that the black blood is most dominate, he was of the darker bloods; African the premiere. Black blood can mix with any race to create that very race or his own. Lighter races don’t have as much variation or diversity in the blood. Eve was of the lighter Asian being the dominant, the Asian type eyes are in every nationality. So, that being said, what was the image of God? I will tell you; African. God really is so complex, but if you just be honest with yourself and except the truth. “Life is so much smoother.”
If you still feel Cain’s blood is cursed because God says…. Fine. Just know that it is a curse of “Damnation and Innovation.” The African blood line started and finished everything first since the beginning.
If you still feel Cain’s blood is cursed because God says…. Fine. Just know that it is a curse of “Damnation and Innovation.” The African blood line started and finished everything first since the beginning.
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Saturday, March 21, 2009
You want, so you have, then you are.
A bit of food for the brain stems... The subject is LOVE. Here is goes... "I want to love you, therefore; I have to love you, that's why I'm loving you."
The question is? Do you have to love someone? The answer for that is... If you want to love that person? You have to love that person. That's why you are currently loving that person. Moreover, if your heart lives in the spiritual realm. Love is just a given.
So, do you have to Love Someone?
Lol, is this to complicate to understand?
Please give feed back. Your input is greatly appreciated.
BTW, "I love you!"
The question is? Do you have to love someone? The answer for that is... If you want to love that person? You have to love that person. That's why you are currently loving that person. Moreover, if your heart lives in the spiritual realm. Love is just a given.
So, do you have to Love Someone?
Lol, is this to complicate to understand?
Please give feed back. Your input is greatly appreciated.
BTW, "I love you!"
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